Your Emotional Safety Isn't His Job

This year has been so much about creating and transformation for me, which included creating 20 clients and the belief man plan where I was committed to thinking, feeling, and behaving as Claire in her ideal relationship. In my belief plan, I thought about the qualities my ideal man would have, but I never thought about emotional safety. Looking back at past relationships where I didn’t have that safety, I know that it’s because I wasn’t creating the space for it. In this episode I share why it is important to have emotional safety, and how to get it back.

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Topics in this episode:

• We are always triggered by the things we feel vulnerable about 
• Projecting based on past experiences. To hear more on projecting versus gut feelings, please revert back to my episode with my former therapist, Ashley Graber: https://clairetheheartbreakcoach.com/podcast/2019/10/28/is-it-my-gut-or-my-projection-with-ashley-graber
• Triggers still come up, even when we have emotional safety
• Emotional availability
• Owning your truth and your needs 
• How to give yourself safety and security 
• “I’m going to choose me”
• Ask yourself: how do I take the best care of me? 

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